I Don't Find it Hard to Meet Nice Men

by MS
(Philadelphia, PA)

I'm a thirtyish Christian woman who dates quite frequently because I'm open to finding the partner in life God has intended for me. I don't find it hard to meet nice men.

I go to church and I go to events that are related to church. Sometimes it's easy to get lazy and not want to go to an event by myself, but I'm always glad when I do. Actually, going by myself is better than going with a girlfriend because I'm more approachable and more likely to be asking questions and conversing with lots of different people.

If I like someone and they don't seem to be married, I flirt (very gently) by asking a question or making a comment about what's happening around us. That often leads to a conversation and a date.

I've also been on Christian dating sites. If you read carefully between the lines, you can usually tell who's for real, and a phone conversation just confirms that first impression. If it doesn't, I don't meet the man for coffee (always in a public place, and I don't give out my last name before that time).

I haven't met Mr. Right yet, but I haven't met a bunch of Mr. Wrong's either. I've learned something from everyone and tried to make this process fun.

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